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SET THE PATTERN
The Apostle Paul said, "Be you followers of me, even as I also am
of Christ" (1Corinthians 11:1). So, if our
spiritual children are to be reproductive, we must set a good
example for them to follow. Generally, people don't do what we
tell them as much as they copy whatever we do.
Paul developed good habits in the Word, prayer, teaching, preaching,
working, and witnessing. He could confidently say to his followers,
"Those things which you have both learned and received and
heard and seen in me, do. And the God of peace shall be with
you" (Philippians 4:9).
Whatever you have learned about being a true disciple, you are to pass on
to someone else. You have learned how to live a holy life in the midst of
a crooked world, how to share the gospel, how to have a regular
Quiet time, how to read, study and memorize the Scriptures, how to
follow up on a young babe in Christ. Don't keep this
experience to yourself: PASS IT ON TO SOMEONE ELSE.
Remember, it is essential that you continue in the Word, prayer
and witnessing so as to set a good example.
SHOW HOW
The best way to teach is to do it together with
someone you are instructing. If you want to learn to play the
violin well, take private lessons from a master. The same is
true of almost any sport or pursuit. We learn by doing under
the instruction of a teacher.
When the disciples asked Jesus, "Lord, teach us to pray,"
the Lord responded by giving examples of effective prayers and then
prayed with them. They learned to pray by praying.
So take time to be with the person you are discipling. Pray together,
read the Bible together, share your Bible study, share lessons you are learning
about yourself and God, share your problems and sorrows, as well as
your victories. Be ready to answer truthfully whatever
questions your young disciple may ask.
Offer to go witnessing together and meet with your contact's friends
and relatives.
SEND FORTH
After this new disciple has been established in
the basics of the Word and prayer life, you are to challenge this
person to engage in some form of ministry. Every one should
bear fruit for Christ. In a sense, you will send him or her
into the harvest. At first, you will need to provide lots of
encouragement and backing. There will probably be some failure
and heartaches, but continue to encourage him. As the great
counselor Paul said, "And let us not be weary in well doing,
for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not" (Galatians
6:9).
When your spiritual child brings his first person to Christ, rejoice with him.
SUSTAIN BY LOVE AND PRAYER
As your friend grows in the Lord and matures, he
will become less dependent upon you. This is natural.
Infants need constant care, but older children will leave the home
to play and explore. But your role as a trusted adviser and
spiritual parent is very vital. You sustain him by your love
and prayer.
When your spiritual child becomes fruitful and begins to disciple others,
your role may change again. The grandparent has a different role than the
parent, but the stability and blessing of a godly heritage is very
great.
SEE INTO THE FUTURE
Notice the explosion of spiritual reproduction
shown in the chart below. If a pastor wins a hundred people to
Christ every year, it would indeed be dramatic work. Yet if an
individual could win one soul to Christ in a year and teach that one
to be faithful and productive, this has even greater potential.
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